This is the way I usually expect my visitors to behave but I do understand that it maybe a little too strong for some people. If it is to much for you, let me know before you decide to visit, we can work something out that will suit you.

We've made a date to meet and that day has arrived, before you leave home you should send me a text to let me know you're leaving and your ETA. We know there are accidents, roadworks, protest etc., which can cause delays. If that should happen to you, please take the time to let me know you are going to be late.

You have found my home under your own steam so as soon as you are parked up, send me a text to let me know you have arrived. Moments later you will receive a text telling you to "Come In" You push the door open, enter and close the door then bolt it. Turn and face the door. There maybe a note pinned to the door with your instructions, obey the note. Otherwise follow these instructions:

To your left will be a bag contain a hood and perhaps an item of clothing (leather shorts or rubber jock etc) From now, you have less than two minutes to get ready.

Turn off your phone and either put it in your pocket or in the bag, remove any jewelry and put that safe. Put your clothes in the bag, if there is a jock or shorts, put that on, then put on the hood, don't worry about lacing it up. Just make sure the mouth hole is aligned with your mouth. Spread your legs wide, then put your hands on your head and wait to be found.

When I come to you, I may speak, but more likely, not say a word. So you just relax and let yourself become pliable. When you feel my foot touch your ankle, put your legs together. If/When you feel yourself being pulled backwards, take a step back. When you feel the back of your knee being touched, kneel. If/when, I lift your wrist, just let your wrist relax. Eventually, your wrist will be put behind your back and cuffed together in some way.

If you're to be gagged, a leather gag will enter your mouth, open your mouth to accept it. When the gag is in place I will lace the hood. When I am ready you will feel a tap on the shoulder, you will stand up and go in the direction you're being steered.

(Even with the gag is in place you will be able to make yourself heard in an emergency. So just MMMMMMPPPPPPPHHHHHH away and I'll remove the gag for you to speak unhindered.)

From this point on, you'll be put in whatever bondage we've already discussed or whatever position takes my fancy.

If you're to be rested before going onto the next scene, you will be kept naked, there is a possiblity that shackles may be fitted to your ankles making it impossible for you to get any clothes on. You may even be expected to wear a steel collar too. If your wrist aren't cuffed, there will be a reason for it, but that reason is not for you to touch yourself. On arrival, your body becomes my toy and I don't like anyone else touching my toys.

Whilst you are in bondage, I may offer you water to drink to avoid dehydration. If you're staying for any length of time, you will neeed to have meals and drinks. If you have a need for any specialist food, let me know in good time to make sure I've bought it in.

From the time of your arrival it will be assumed that you are in good health, so it is your responsibility to inform me if you have any known ailments or conditions that need to be looked after. Do that before your arrival. When you leave your home, send me a text to let me know you're on your way. At the same time, remind me of your health issues. In the interest of safety I assume in every scene someone is HIV positive and keep that in mind during play. I've managed to play all this time without becoming infected, and would not want to do anything to change that status.

Toilet

Like food and sleep, using the toilet is a natural act that needs to be taken care of. Should you have a need to use the toilet please let me know straight away.

Pins and Needles, Numbness.

From time to time I may put you into a position that causes pins and needles or numbness. If that should happen to you, don't suffer in the hope it will go away. It will only get worse and spoil things. So as soon as you are aware that something is not right, inform me.

Safe Play

For me it is very important to play safe. When it comes to bondage sessions, No one who visits me will be fucked by me or made to suck my cock. That isn't to say we can't use toys if you need to be penetrated. But I ask that you satisfy yourself that the toys are cleaned before use, and you have the decency to clean them after use for the next person. There is always surgical spirits and cotton wool in the bathroom and latex gloves will be found somewhere in the house.

Regardless of your status, I treat everyone as though they have the HIV virus and try to behave accordingly. Should either you or I get cut at any time, the scene will stop straight away and the wound made safe before continuing. I don't get involved with the exchange of any body fluids.

Some lads like to shave their nether regions but that isn't a problem for me, I don't mind if lads are shaved smooth or hairy. The one thing that I do like is for lads not to stimulate themselves sexually for at least three days before their visit. Okay, it isn't imperitive, but it does make a scene go better if a lad has stayed horny for a few days beforehand. As far as I'm aware, it hasn't been scientifically proven. But I think a lad who hasn't cum for a few days is more likely to be more submissive and better at suffering whilst being edged

In my home, you have absolutely NO PRIVACY at any time for any reason. When you are allowed to use the bathroom, you don't attempt to close the bathroom door nor will any door be closed whilst you are alone in any other room. If someone rings on my doorbell, it's likely I will ignore it, but I may choose to answer the door and allow the visitor into my home. If that visitor should see you, so be it.

In all the years I've been playing, I've only ever put one guy out of the house, but it was a very special circumstance and one that he agreed was deserved when he had calmed down.

However, I do reserve the right to put anyone out of the house should their behaviour go beyond being reasonable. Should I put someone out of the house, I will first remove anything of mine still attached to them. All of their clothes and belongings will be taken from the bag and put outside the door on the doorstep and the door closed behind them.

The reason for having lads visit me is to explore and enjoy a mutual passion of bondage. Whilst I am aware some tops/doms insist that you're their property to be treated as they wish and your only role is to please them whilst your pleasure counts for nothing. If that is what you're looking for as a sub, please look elsewhere. Because it isn't for me.

Please understand, I will make rules for you to obey, and happily take control. But everything is flexible and up for negotiation and I am also aware that BDSM is not an open and closed book. Everyone is different so it isn't really possible to make rules that suit everyone. I follow three rules that I think is important in any scene.

1. Respect - is very important. If you can't respect someone, you can't trust them. Respect can't be bought, it has to be earned.
2. Trust - Without trust a good BDSM scene can't happen. Because if you can't trust, you can't relax and good bondage needs everyone to relax before it can be enjoyed fully. It can be used to relieve stress when both sides are in accord.
3. Good Communication - No one is a mind reader, so people have to talk about what rocks their boat and it's then down to everyone working something into a scene so everyone can enjoy it.

If there are things you don't want to experience then let me know likewise if there are things that is imperitive for you to experience then I want to be told about that too.